You handle the team. The targets.
The emotions no one else wants to touch.

Meanwhile:
18:30: "what's for dinner?" (fantastic question)
20:00: laundry situation is getting personal
22:47: "quick" email (sure)
23:18: tomorrow is already running in your head

So why are you so damn tired?

Not your weakness. Just a system that expects
you to carry it all (and call it leadership).

Cool. Love that for you. 🙃

held

You don’t have to do this alone.

Not like this.

HELD is where you stop being the one who holds everything together for everyone else. A private membership for women leaders who are done carrying it alone - and ready to build something that actually holds them. Not perfectly. Not all at once. But in real life. On days like this.

Okay. I need this.

Let me stop doing everything alone.

You’re the one people go to when things get messy.

At work

You sense tension before anyone says a word. You fix things before they become a problem (half leader, half emotional air traffic control).

At home

You're running logistics like a small, underfunded startup.
Who needs to be where. What needs to be done. What everyone else forgot.

Dealing with the
burnout paradox

You're managing three projects, mentoring two juniors, and coordinating cross-team communications. Your bandwidth is at 110%.

And the fun part?
   Most of this isn’t even officially your job.    

You just… picked it up.
Because someone had to.

Okay. I need this.

Let me stop doing everything alone.

And here's the part no
one really points out...

What are we asking women to carry is we're not asking men to carry.

You didn't decide to carry
this much. It just... happened.

And because you're capable?
It stuck.

Why do we consider that normal?

📌Professional wins? Misunderstood.
📌Tough messages? You soften them.
📌Emotional weight? Invisible. Yours.
📌Family, kids, household? Also yours.
📌Frustration in the office? Absorbed.
📌Your own needs? Last on the list.

"I'll just do it this once." It quietly becomes part of your role.

You show up. Hold it together. Quietly burn out. And call it 'normal'.

Yeah...been there.

I'm Yolande Waasdorp - former 9-to-5 survivor who spent years in constant survival mode before saying: enough.

Since then, I’ve helped 1,800+ women reclaim their clarity, energy, and confidence at work. 35+ Years, four countries, side by side with the women who show up every day - and the organizations that employ them.

I know what it feels like to be trapped in a broken work system. That’s why everything I build is practical, no-nonsense, and works in the real world.

And I’ll be right there with you - every step of the way.

Meet your guide & rememberer

How can I help?

Membership HELD

HELD is where you stop being the one who holds everything together for everyone else.

A private membership for women leaders who are done carrying it alone - and ready to build something that actually holds them. 

Okay. I need this.

Let me stop doing everything alone

Your flightpath - free resources

6 Ways I can help you... Pick what feels right today.  No pressure. No "you should start here."

From a private membership to free tools you can use before your next meeting - it's all here. Sniff around. Land where you need to. That's not laziness. That's Tunedfulness in action. 

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HEART ecosystem

HEART is like a roadmap for a journey – your flightpath. 👉 a cyclical process of regulation, engagement, and attunement.

HEART is a framework to understand and support processes, development, and self-management.

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You’ve been holding it together for ages.

Yoga here. Team training there. A new planner. Maybe a weekend getaway. 

They help a little. But none of it gives you a real, stable home base.

You need 5 anchors.

Real ones. That actually keep you steady. ⚓

HELD membership is where you build them -
so leadership stops feeling like juggling knives. 🤹

Okay. I need this.

Let me stop doing everything alone.

Yoga didn’t fix it. Team training didn’t either. The system 
is still broken - but you don’t have to carry it alone. 💥

There are 5 anchors
that keep you steady.

(And your sanity intact. 😌)

HELD is a private membership for women leaders tired of holding everything together alone in a work world built against them. You won’t be asked to be stronger - you’ll be held while building 5 anchors that make leadership feel steady in your day‑to‑day and in your body. 

Join the waitlist

Your first step toward steady ground

Yep, this will sign you up to the waitlist and email list. You may unsubscribe at any time. But fair warning - once you experience what clarity actually feels like, you won't want to.🌸

Feeling like you’re holding everything
together… and still wobbling?

Yeah. That’s not you.

That’s what happens when you’re leading without something that actually holds you.

You need anchors.

Real ones. The kind that hold your
day-to-day - and your nervous system.

Because anchors create hold.
And hold creates stability. ⚓

The HEART method shows you 5 anchors that actually
keep you steady. Even when the pressure doesn’t stop.

And the fun part?
   Most of this isn’t even officially your job.    

You just… picked it up.
Because someone had to.

Okay. I need this.

Let me stop doing everything alone.

What steady actually looks like:

📌You stay steady - even when everything’s pulling on you.
📌You stop chasing random self-care fixes. One structure that actually works.
📌You catch overload early- before it takes you down.
📌You lead without running on emergency energy 24/7.
📌You come home with something left for you. (Finally).


Build your 5 anchors

Your first step toward steady ground

Membership

 Build stability inside HELD

HELD is not another toolbox. This is a place where you are
actually held while you build five anchors that finally fit your life.

HELD on-demand membership.

Everything in one place.
Support that keeps your system
together- so you can actually breathe.

The HEART method that
holds you while you rebuild.

Turn workplace stress into steady energy - even when the pressure never stops.

18 bundles. Real tools.
Real life. 

Daily routines, energy drain clearings, guides, action plans - whenever
you need them.

You show up. Hold it together. Quietly burn out. And call it 'normal'.

Yeah...been there.

I'm Yolande Waasdorp - former 9-to-5 survivor who spent years in constant survival mode before saying: enough.

Since then, I’ve helped 1,800+ women reclaim their clarity, energy, and confidence at work. 35+ Years, four countries, side by side with the women who show up every day - and the organizations that employ them.

I know what it feels like to be trapped in a broken work system. That’s why everything I build is practical, no-nonsense, and works in the real world.

And I’ll be right there with you - every step of the way.

Meet your guide & rememberer

Yoga didn’t fix it. Team training didn’t either. The system 
is still broken - but you don’t have to carry it alone. 💥

There are 5 anchors
that keep you steady.

(And your sanity intact. 😌)

HELD is a private membership for women leaders tired of holding everything together alone in a work world built against them. You won’t be asked to be stronger - you’ll be held while building 5 anchors that make leadership feel steady in your day‑to‑day and in your body. 

Join the waitlist

Your first step toward steady ground

Yep, this will sign you up to the waitlist and email list. You may unsubscribe at any time. But fair warning - once you experience what clarity actually feels like, you won't want to.🌸

Yolande Waasdorp

I'm an Intuitive Sensitive, bestselling recovery program educator, ex-corporate girl, and the woman who decided that broken work deserves a better answer.
Within The Tuning Fork Flock, I guide women back to themselves.  

Authenticity has been my thing. Dodging small talk since my first words - I'd rather talk about what truly resonates.

Welcome to my virtual captain's cabin. Grab a seat, and stay a while, won't you?